Boundaries Are Requirements.
People want access.
And the best way to get that from women is to tell them something about themselves to make them feel good,
Even if it’s a lie or a half truth.
Women are very easy to manipulate, men and women know this,
Tell a woman she’s pretty, smart, intelligent or right and you will have a friend for life.
Women are like puppies, and compliments are the treats.
Women need acceptance, validation and relatability,
And when people realize I don’t, it’s causes them to be defensive.
Women don’t like exclusion, boundaries are the exclusion that causes women to attack you.
I’ve been complimented under my posts and laughed at under another.
Women are fake and fickle.
The “40 where!” or “you look 32!” When I tell women my daughters age, would only be compliments to me if I didn’t want to be or was ashamed of my age.
I don’t have a problem aging, I don’t need anyone to tell me I look younger than what I am.
And those same women will call me old as soon as they feel rejected by me.
Many of you seen women flip on me, please, I don’t take most women seriously.
Men are no different, telling me I think like a man is actually an insult guised as a compliment,
Or they attempt to stroke my ego by telling me I’m “different” and “wifey material”
Knowing the kinds of women men choose to marry, which is rooted in comfort and acceptance from other men, those “compliments” are bullshit.
Men don’t accept women like me, they want to use me in ways they cannot use the average woman they would choose over me.
I know what a genuine compliment is, and they are rare.
Women are extremely shallow and all it takes to win them over are “nice” words.
I require more.
-Lilith